Amy- You'll hear many voices...your success is determined by the one you choose to listen to!

       Throughout our lives, we have that little voice in our heads, telling us to do the right thing, telling us we can or can't go on. We also hear other people in our heads. Now, I'm not talking about being schizophrenic or delusional...if you have arguments with the voices in your head, I'm gonna suggest you seek help from your nearest mental health professional! I'm talking about hearing the voice of our mom or dad, telling us we can cross the finish line, we can ace that test. Ever since I was a little girl, my parents have told me "you can do ANYTHING you put your mind to!". Every time I'm facing a difficult task, I hear their voices telling me that. We may also hear the voices of friends or other family encouraging us. Sadly, some of us have been in abusive relationships, and hear the voices of our abusers telling us we're worthless, "why would anyone want you?!?", "you're nothing but a _______(fill in the blank)!!"...yes, I have much personal experience with those voices myself! We hear many voices in day-to-day life and when we struggle with an ordeal. We'll HEAR many voices through our lives, but our success or failure is dictated by which ones we LISTEN to.

       For me, the worst thing someone can do is to tell me I can't do something. I always take that as a personal challenge to prove them wrong, and fight all the more so I can tell them "told you I could do it!". Right after I had my accident, I told y'all I was in and out of consciousness. I'd hear the doctors in my ICU room telling my parents "we don't know if she's gonna make it"; my spleen had ruptured and something ridiculous like 4 Liters of blood had been sucked outta my abdomen in surgery (I rec'd 15 units of blood throughout hospitalization). Once again, I took that as a personal challenge, and hung on with everything in me. When I got past those first 48 hrs., my chance of survival greatly increased. Now the attention was placed on my arms and legs and how functional I would be if I DID live through it. I heard the docs telling my family "we don't know if she'll be able to walk again". My parents, ever the optimists, and knowing me and how hard-headed I am, told the doctor "you don't Amy Marie! She'll be running before all this over!". My parents said the docs looked at them like they were crazy, heartbroken parents who couldn't accept the fact that their daughter, as they knew her, was gone. 

       After the first 11 or 12 surgeries, I was in so much pain; and for the first time in my life, I doubted I could get through it. The first voices I remember were my family cheering me on, telling me I'd been hit by a drunk driver but Bailey and I were  gonna be ok. I remember coming to and just writhing in pain. I mouthed something to my mom, and she leaned in closer and said "what baby? I can't hear you?". I said " it hurts too much... I can't do this anymore". She looked at me with a very worried and heartbroken expression and said "NO! Don't say that! We need you to hang on for us!". She went to the nurses station and had a Shirley MacLaine-style breakdown like the one in " Terms of Endearment"! She told the nurse "she said she can't do this anymore!!! She's hurting too much to hang on... YOU get in there and give her something to help her pain so she can keep going!!!", then she came in the room and told me they were coming to give me medicine. Being the drill sergeant she is, she then said " DON'T you give up, Amy Marie!!! You CAN and WILL do this...failure is not an option!!! Think of your kids, of your brother and sisters! And what about me and daddy?!?". Then the nurse came in with heavy drugs and I stopped wishing for death! Listening to the right voices, at the right time, can make you or break you!

       Over the next few weeks, doctors, nurses and occupational and physical therapists came in and out of my room. Some of them would tell me how amazing it was that I survived, how I was "lucky", or "blessed". As I progressed, they saw the effort I put into therapy, how hard I tried to do anything and everything the docs allowed me to do, and they told me how proud they were; that pushed me to try harder. We sometimes don't realize the positive impact our kind and encouraging words have on someone who may be struggling to keep going; keep that in mind the next time you see someone who could use a kind word. Your words may mean the difference btw life and death for that person!

       Unfortunately, vindictive people may also try to tear you down at your most vulnerable. A month and a half after my accident, the guy I'd been seeing for over a year broke up with me. He said it wasn't the accident, and maybe it wasn't, but it sure felt like it was when he texted taunting things to me. When he heard my present boyfriend, Kevin (now fiancé) and I were talking, he said "what kind of loser is HE that he wants to date a woman who can't even walk?!?". That was one of those confusing times, when someone you care about tells you something that completely conflicts with the person you thought they were. I'm a person who really tries to find good in everyone, even people who aren't nice to me. I know that sounds naive, but I believe if someone is that miserable that they need to go outta their way to hurt me, they must not have been treated very nicely as kids. If it makes them feel better, fill some void in their lives, to be mean to me because someone was mean to them growing up, then so be it. I figure they've got much bigger problems than I do if they have to go that far! I still try to see the good in everyone, despite how they treat me. This was one of those rare moments when what someone said really hurt me, and it was hard to let it roll off my back. I was broken... physically, emotionally and spiritually. If a person you love can say that to you at the worst and lowest point in your life, they don't love you, and you don't need them in your life! When someone loves you...REALLY loves you...they want you to feel good about yourself! They see your beauty despite scars and broken bones. Kevin found out what my ex said , and said "that's ok...HE'S the fuckin' the loser for not realizing what he was throwing away! I'M lucky!".

       Although it hurt, I'm glad my ex said those things. It pissed me off enough to stop crying and feeling sorry for myself. I couldn't stand on my legs for 4.5 months after the accident, but I laid in my hospital bed in my parents' living room and worked out in bed. I did leg lifts, crunches, and after my broken ankles healed enough, I put ankle weights on and sat on the edge of the bed and did quad curls. It hurt like hell, especially since I'd had a piece of hip bone removed and grafted to my right ankle, but I pushed through the pain so I could be myself again. I couldn't stand in front of a mirror, so I laid my legs in front of me to see how much muscle tone I needed to gain back, and how my scars looked. I wasn't ever gonna give anyone the opportunity to tell me how much "better" I looked "BEFORE the accident"!

       My recovery was long and hard, but only possible because of the supportive people around me. People tell me what an "inspiration" I am, but I don't see it that way. Actually, I laugh a little on the inside when someone tells me how brave I am, and my mind immediately rewinds to the times I've just broken down and cried, sobbing about all I've lost because of this damn accident! I wonder what people would say if they could see me at those times; would they still tell me I'm an inspiration? I'm not sure, but I DO know that I see  my family, and Kevin, as the voices who made me strong when I wanted to break; giving me pep talks when I wanted to have a wimpy girl breakdown and abandon all hope. The way they believed in me, and assured me I could be myself again, is the only reason I didn't accept the mediocre standards my docs had set for me. I wanted to be the girl that you couldn't tell had been through hell and back...that chick in a bikini on the beach, that u sit down next to, never knowing the disfiguring scars and breaks that lie beneath! As the chick in "1965"  (white zombie) says, "I  never TRY anything, I just DO it! Wanna try me?!?". I may have broken nearly every bone in my body, but I'm still the chick who pushes the envelope a little further, and I don't "try", I DO...whatever I have the whimsy to do, including walking around the house in my pleather thigh high boots, just for a laugh and to make myself feel a little sexier and in control of the life that hasn't resembled MY life for quite some time! Only YOU can determine your own potential, and only you can determine your boundaries. Who do you know that gets to be close enough to whisper those words of condescension or words of encouragement? How will you recognize them? Only you can decide... Choose wisely my friends! 

       

Amy- Sooooo tired of fighting!!!

       I'm tired of this nightmare...can I wake up now? Or at least switch to one with an easier theme, like being chased by satan and his rabid hounds of hell?!? I have been drowning these last few weeks in court hearings, end-of-year school projects/book reports, chasing down paperwork from my doctors confirming I can't go back to work, applications for financial assistance,  and preparing for my disability hearing!

       As you know, I can't return to work because my surgeons don't feel comfortable releasing me, seeing as how my left arm and left leg were crushed and are now being held together with bubble gum and some shoe string!!!  Ok, well, they're held together with titanium, actually, but there's a lot of pins and screws in both! Anyway, I haven't worked since December of 2011, and got my last paycheck in January 2012!!! I would love nothing more than to go back to work; I miss taking care of my patients and seeing my friends at work! But more than that, I miss having MONEY!!!
       When I began my job at the hospital, I was still married to my ex-husband. I won't say his name...instead, we'll use my nickname for him, "the antidote to fun" (spontaneous laughter and fun always came to an abrupt end when he entered a room) . Anyway, the antidote to fun had a job with health insurance and benefits, which we were already on. When I started at the hospital, if I didn't take the benefits, the pay was $5 more an hour, so he didn't want me to take the benefits. I remained on his insurance and I was without any benefits, including health insurance, life insurance, 401K, ad any insurance that may have reimbursed me for injuries and given me the ability to continue paying 

my house note and other bills after my accident, like Aflac. After we got separated, I tried to go during open enrollment and enroll in benefits, but I was a night nurse and I was working all 3 nights that the benefit enrollment was going on in the day. Needless to say, I was unable to enroll at that time. I tried calling the people in charge of it, but, of course, they didn't return my calls!!! Because of this, I didn't have benefits or my own health insurance when I had my accident. Fortunately, my ex-husband kept me on his insurance after the accident because our divorce wasn't final yet, and he knew I would need more surgeries.  He was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive, so
this was uncharacteristically nice of him. I really appreciated his keeping me on the insurance,
because that allowed me to have the surgery that released my contracted arm that was frozen in one position, and allowed me to bend my arm again!

       My mom and sister began the application process for disability and any other type of assistance available within weeks after my accident. I was in and out of consciousness, but they were nice enough to fill out the applications as best they could and send them off. I was denied disability the first time I applied. I got a social security attorney and he told me that it was common practice for
social security to deny everyone the first time they apply. When you're denied disability/SSI, you can appeal. The appeal involves attending a hearing and presenting paperwork from doctors stating you're unable to return to work because of your limitations. My hearing is this Thursday, so please everyone-say a little prayer for me!

       I have also applied for food stamps, TANF and any other available funds. I HATE the idea that I have to go this extreme, but I have no income and 3 kids to take care of! My ex-husband and I share custody 50/50, so I do not get child support. Knowing I have no income, he texted me a few weeks ago to let me know that our oldest daughter picked out a $300 dress for a dance, and my half was $150. My reply was "I have no money, and sadly, I can't pull it out my ass! Where would you like me to get it?". He has an "it's not my problem" attitude, and that's fine because it's not his problem! However, I was with him for 18 yrs., married to him for 14 yrs. As the mother of his children, and as the woman who endured his verbal, emotional and physical abuse, that should count for something, like a little slack! If I don't have it, I don't have it! 

       It floors me that I always get behind people in line at the grocery store who pull out their Louisiana purchase cards; they appear perfectly capable of working, have no apparent disabilities or conditions that preclude them from working! Many of these people talk to you while you're in line, and they let you know that they're not working and have never worked for any substantial amount of time! How is it that they are able to take advantage of all these funds that are supposed available to those in NEED, while I, a formerly productive member of the workforce, who has had 14 surgeries over the last year, had to re-learn to walk, and regain use of my left arm and hand, get denied?!? I worked...I paid my taxes and paid into all the state programs that I desperately need right now, and for which I have been repeatedly turned down, while my poor fiancé works his ass off as a firefighter to pay for our food and all other expenses?!? It's not fair! It's almost as if you need to be born into a family who is already on Medicaid, foodstamps, and any other assistance for you to automatically be accepted! It's like "oh, your parents are on assistance? Ok, sign here and your benefits will be in the mail!". I hate asking for help. I hate having to apply for these things. I hate having to admit to myself and everyone else that I can't take care of myself and my kids financially. Logically, I know I'm unable to do those things I could do before!!! But then there's that part of me, the hard-headed, pain in the ass part who believes she can do anything, and it's hard telling that part of me "you can't go
back to work! You have to sit this one out!".

       The moral of the story is this; PLAN AHEAD! What happened to us can happen to anyone.  We were in the wrong place at the wrong time. It could have happened to any one of you...imagine what type of help you would need, what kind of justice would you want? I cannot stress this enough! What would you have to fall back on if you could no longer work? Who would take care of your children in the event that you were badly injured, or, God forbid, you should die?

        I took the stand and conveyed our story so the court would understand what impact this tragedy had on our family. I was speaking up for all of us moms who drive the streets, night or day, running errands with our babies in the car, while drunk drivers carelessly weave in and out of traffic, endangering us and everyone else on the street. In the weeks to come, I will be passing along information about our legislators and what we need to do to make the changes that will protect us and our children, so please be sure to watch our blog. Drunk driving laws MUST change so that none of you ever have to go through this, and it needs to change ASAP!!! One person CAN make a difference! Until then, please pray that I am able to get some type of assistance until I'm able to find an alternate income. I will keep everyone posted about my disability hearing. If anyone needs any advice or questions regarding types of assistance available, please feel free to ask! If I don't have the answer, I'll do what I can to find the answer! Have a good night all!

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Moneek - Weird Manifestations of SCI, ie Sparkiness

There are things you never think about your spinal cord controlling, such as your heart's ability to maintain adequate blood pressure, or your skin's ability to continue to sweat. I do not have total loss of anything, but I do have diminished senses in my legs and trunk. I'm no longer ticklish (I used to be SO ticklish!) though my feet seem to be picking that up again. Bruises don't hurt like they used to and walking in the dark is a little more difficult because of my lack of proprioception in my ankle - but it's actually improving too!

By far the weirdest thing for me I call getting "sparky." Not  taking baclofen won't kill me, but if I don't then my sympathetic nervous system over- reacts, or at least that's how I interpret it. See, you have basically 2 types of autonomic nervous systems, the sympathetic and parasympathetic. Parasympathetic controls your "mundane" processes, such as regulation of internal organs and glands, and everything you do at rest. I've also heard "feed and breed" or "rest and digest". Your sympathetic nervous system is "fight or flight" and is responsible for your reaction to noxious stimuli. Anything that requires a quick response.  For example, your pupils dilate, your heart beats faster, you jump and say "AAAHHH!" That's sympathetic. Wikipedia describes it as sympathetic being the police responders and parasympathetic being the court system.
MY sympathetic system over-reacts sometimes if I forget the baclofen. Nothing dangerous just kind of funny. So any loud noise, even if I cognitively know it's not dangerous, I'll jump at. Something even slightly painful, such as scratching an itch on my arm, can make me snatch away that limb.That's why I call it "sparky", because my body seems to jump at everything! I can totally feel it coming on, so it's not unavoidable, but it IS pretty annoying! But also, laughable. Sheesh! The stuff ya never think about..;)

Monique - Adventures in Depression (a nod to Allie & Hyperbole and a Half)

Those guys have been having awesome weeks, but mine not so much. We all have ups and downs, and this is my down. I hope this is just the beginning of a come-back story! Good stuff happened too. Cross-posted from my blog:
http://moniquekoll.blogspot.com/2013/05/summer-rainhappy-birthday-bono.html

Summer Rain...Happy Birthday BONO!!

The purpose of this post is to hopefully show a great comeback from rock bottom, because that's where I am right now. The low point in my 35 years is now. I've survived an abusive marriage and a ton of money problems, and I gotta believe I'll survive this too. But MAN am I tired of being strong! Give me weak and easy, I'd be cool with that for now!

Bono's Birthday is today! My favorite band. This is my favorite song from them; if I had to pick a song that accurately represents me, this is it.
It's called Summer Rain.

It's not this bad, I just really really love this blog and she's just gone through some bad times: MAKE SURE you read at least one other thing besides the "Adventures in Depression" posts! I like the Dog one. Hyperbole and a Half

This has been a crazy week. Lots of good, one really bad. In that I lost my job. I don't really get the details, basically they waited until I was no longer on FMLA even though I tried to get back to work before it was out, and then said since I was no longer on FMLA they were letting me go. My therapists and doctors filled out a lot of paperwork for them, all saying I can go back. HR kept coming up with weird next steps that I had to do, which I now see were probably stalling tactics. YES I'm confident I can do the job now, I honestly don't know what the problem is. I'm healed enough that I'm confident that I could even do surgery. I wish I had the opportunity to show them I'm okay now, I miss it. But I don't know where to go from here.

SO what to do?? Honestly, I'm scared, and hurt, and incredibly sad. It's the icing on the cake for me, everything I built has come crashing down. I wanted to be a vet all my life - since I was seven years old - and I can't even afford working in private practice because of my mega student loans. Can't leave the state easily because I have a kid with aforementioned ex-husband, and of course I'm still healing from this broken neck business.
I read something on Facebook recently that said something to the effect of if you don't believe it will be okay, you don't trust life enough. It's true, I don't, and I have a hard time trusting it will be okay.
Nic said if it's not working to trust God right now, trust in how strong I am. That helps.
My awesomest friend Jess said there are 2 type of people, those that are good at adapting and blending in and going along with things, and those that are determined to get what they want. The world needs both types. Her analogy was that if we were stranded on a desert island she would be the type that blends in with the natives and became part of their culture, and I would be the type to build a boat and find a way to get back where I wanted to be. That's how she knows I'm going to be okay. I think Nic is the 1st type too, along with her. It works. My life is still together because of him.

Jess & Me

So I need a job. For reals this time. Even if it's a new profession. I want to work.

ON to the good things!!!

I'm 99% walking with a cane now! It doesn't help me walk correctly but it does help with my balance. And is sooo much more easy to carry around! And hug people! And shoo away pets and children and things! Hooray!
500y swimming this week! If ya think that's tough, try doing it as a paraplegic! Gogglesss! ;) (I forgot them)
Follow my progress! NOLA RnR 2014 Training Log

I attended the 1st time trial of the season by Precision Bikes. I sucked at cycling when I started racing, but this was always a fun time even though I came in last! It Was Great; I met quite a few people there. The awesome chiropractor Keith Terro, Ruud Vuijsters the PT, badass Jamie Scott whom came to visit me in the hospital (I don't really remember!,) and equally badass Aimee Copeland that had done my x-rays (I also don't remember). Also there was Stanley Lerille (vote for him HERE to go to Kona!) and Scott Coco that I met when I was still in a wheelchair, and Amanda Cole whom I just bought some cycling stuff from the day before, my first since getting mashed up, Mark Miller of course,and a TON of other people.You should come out next time - the Corner Bar ya'll!

Nic's sister Laura Zaunbrecher & her boyfriend Charles Garabedian went to see Frank Shorter talk. They got him to sign this great picture of us at the finish line! Frank Shorter had cheered us on and handed me my walker. SO stoked about it!!

BikeLafayette's Jen Steele and I were on KATC promoting  the "Ride of Silence,"  a world-wide event that honors cyclists that were hit or killed on roadways. I'm one of the honorees this year, along with other really great people. May 15th 7PM at the Mickey Shunick Ghost Bike memorial!!

Have a happy weekend! Go listen to some U2!

Amy-Holy shit...KICKED ASS!!!

      I'm still shaking. The assistant D.A. Came to us before court and told us that he wouldn't get jail time, that the most he'd get was a year probation and be ordered to pay restitution for out-of-pocket medical expenses. She tried apologizing, saying how she sits up nights trying to find ways to bring justice to these people. I said "I appreciate that, but with all due respect, he FUCKED my world up!!!". She said a fee more things which I tuned out bc I was SOOOO fuckin pissed, and just stared straight ahead. His docket came up and the assistant DA said "your honor, one of the victims is here and would like to speak". I felt every eye in the court room on me as I walked up to the stand and got sworn in. The assistant DA asked "Mrs. Sutton, is this Derek Perrilloux, the man who hit you seated here?". With a sneer on my face, I locked eyes with him and said "yes it is". She then asked a few questions about the accident and Bailey, and asked  if I had anything to say. I said "your honor, this man drove into us head-on. I broke my left leg in 4 places and my right ankle, broke every rib, fractured my spine and had a brain injury. My life as I knew it, is over. I can't lift more than 2 lbs. with my left arm. I was a successful RN, a mother, a runner...6 miles a day every day, even when I was nine months pregnant. To the average onlooker, I look ok"...then I locked eyes with him and said "Mr. Perrilloux, I will never be ok again...because of YOU!!! I know you have 2 kids, and I sincerely hope you never have anything like this happen to your family!!!".

      You could hear a pin drop...the judge looked over her glasses at me and said "what sentence would you recommend? 0-5years?" I didn't even let her finish the words before I said "FIVE!!!". I stepped down, and she deliberated with his attorney and the DA. The judge said he gets 5 years, 4 of them suspended, one he MUST serve. After that, she wanted him on house arrest. His attorney said "your honor, are we saying one year house arrest with no jail time?", and she said "No, he has to serve!". We go back June 11th to see if they're gonna accept, or go to trial!

     It felt sooooooo good to stare him down with my teeth gritted and tell him all that he has taken!!! He squirmed in his chair, sometimes looking at me, sometimes looking down. I think I did a pretty good job conveying to him what a piece of shit I think he is! Thank you everyone for your support!!!

Amy - "Let's get ready to RRRUUUUUUUUUUMMMBBLE!!!!"

...that's right guys, it's court time again! On Wed., May 8th, I get to, once again, place eyes on the man who took my life from me, thereby reliving the physical, emotional and spiritual pain I've endured in the last 17 months.This will be our 4th or 5th court appearance, and each time, his lawyer has the case extended!  My offender has apparently "found God" and is a changed man, according to what people tell me he posts on Facebook. My answer to that is "too little, too late"!!! My life as I knew it is gone...all because you had to drive with a blood alcohol of 0.16...that's TWICE the legal limit!!!

       I'm not a whiny little girl that has to have things "just so". I face my problems head-on, and if an obvious solution can't be found, I'll find or make one. Always the tomboy as a child, I've never been afraid to get my hands dirty. My parents didn't raise a whiny ass...they raised a hard-ass, fighting, kicking and screaming bitch who doesn't back down!  However, this...this situation, doesn't seem to be one with an "easy fix". I just want my life back. I want the man who took all I had to come to justice, nothing more, nothing less. I survived because, for some reason, God spared me. I appear at every court date looking like my old self bc I fought for it...THAT, I earned! Please everybody say prayers that this SOB gets what he deserves!!!

Amy- Be your own advocate!

     Some of us have different ways of going about obtaining our goals. Some of us are the hard-nose, pain-in-the-butt individuals that hold onto their goals until they are accomplished, like a dog with a bone. However, there comes a time when even we, the "type A" personalities, are met with objection. That's when it's most important to fight for your goal. For Jenny and myself, we had experiences with health professionals who, because they couldn't find what they "thought" they might find, basically wrote us off as crazy hypochondriacs. This is when it's most important to be your own advocate! I cannot stress this point enough!!!
      The accidents and heart surgeries are just a small part of what we've been through in the last few years. Much went on "behind the scenes" that we haven't told you. Jen almost had a surgery she didn't need and that wouldn't have helped her because her usual heart surgeon wasn't consulted on her admission to the hospital. The surgeons seeing her were going to do a completely different procedure than the life-saving one she had as the result of her own surgeon being consulted at her insistence!    
      Likewise, years before my accident, I had been having unexplained spiking fevers, joint pain and migraine headaches. My general practitioner told me I was "depressed" and "overwhelmed" because I had just had my third child in the months before. I didnt consider myself a depressed person. I'm actually the happy-go-lucky type, always looking for the fun in everything. However, trusting my doc and her opinion, I took the prescription for antidepressants and anti-convulsant meds (to prevent the migraines), and moved along. In the week I started the anti-depressant and anti-convulsant meds, I felt jittery and strange. I also lost 15 pounds, which I didn't need to lose because I was only 125 lbs. and 5'7"! I called my docs office to inform them of this, and they assured me it was my body adjusting to the medication. I answered with "but you don't understand; I feel like something is off and the sight of any food makes me nauseous!". They explained this was a side-effect of both meds and said "ok?" in a patronizing voice. So, I learned to ignore the nagging feeling. After all, she was the doctor...SHE should know better, right?!?
       WRONG!!!! Within about 2-3 years, I had stopped the anti-convulsant, but was still taking the anti-depressant. I had finally gone to a rheumatologist about my aches, fevers and migraines. They were discovered to be the result of an autoimmune illness I'd had for years. My rheumatologist was the one who told me that my anti-depressant and anti-convulsant couldn't be mixed, so i stopped the anti-convulsant. My rheumatologist had told me that it may have caused damage to my liver and/or pancreas, due to the amount of time they were taken. However, being the invincible Amy, I said "nah, I'll be fine!", but I spoke too soon! A few months later, I had just come home from a long night at the hospital when I noticed a nagging feeling in my left side. I ignored it, thinking it would go away. However, within 2 hours I was writhing on my floor in pain calling my mother's house so she or my dad could come take me to the hospital.
       When I got to the hospital, my blood pressure went from 191/100 to 80/30, and I was in big trouble. My poor daddy just sat back with this look of terror on his face as staff members raced around the ER. That memory sticks in my mind because my dad is the epitome of tough; nothing shakes him! But when they said "she's crashing", he was terrified. They gave me lots of fluids and ran tests, and I had severe necrotizing pancreatitis. This type of pancreatitis is rare, and instead of just inflaming your pancreas, it destroys part or all of your pancreas, which you can't live without! It releases many enzymes responsible for breaking down your food, as well as releasing insulin so you can obtain energy from sugar-the brain's only form of energy. I was airlifted to Ochsner in New Orleans after a week at my local hospital, because my case was too complicated.
       After much investigation into my health history, they found that the anti-depressant and Anti-convulsant I had been taking for about 2-3 yrs. were not supposed to be mixed! It's even on the commercials for both medications! My GI doc told my family "it doesn't look good; say your goodbyes". I received Last Rites and, while confessing, realized a lot about my life that I wanted to change. The next day, I started doing better. I eventually recuperated fully and made the changes to my life I regretted when examining my life in what I thought were my last moments. There's nothing worse than waiting for death knowing there were things you could've tried but didn't, because of fear.
       By the same token, don't let fear dictate whether or not you speak up for yourself. "LISTEN TO YOURSELF!!!"! Don't ever let anyone make you second-guess yourself or doubt that what you're feeling is real! I don't know where I'd be if not for Jen, my family and my rheumatologist! When it was all said and done, my rheumatologist told me that she was the one who called Ochsner. She had been watching my labs and they were BAD, but my "assigned" docs didn't pay attention. My survival in that situation was only because of her, and I was lucky. Only YOU know how you feel. Only YOU can make others hear you, no matter how bleak it may seem. You never know who that one person may be who just may save your life, all because you spoke up!

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